Posted by: Hope | July 28, 2010

Well, That Ended…

Well…like all of you requested, it finally happened. Jason and I broke up about a week or so ago. It wasn’t easy, on either of us, really. I’ll always love him, and I hope our friendship continues and only gets stronger over the years. I’ll miss him a lot during these months of being the awkward ex’s. It wasn’t easy for me to let go, and honestly…I’m not sure I have let go. I still love him, and I still wish things could have worked, but they simply didn’t. I suppose we’re better off this way. There’s no use being with someone if they don’t love you, or respect you enough to be in love with you. It’s sad that someone could be so insistent that he doesn’t love me. How can you be best friends with someone and not respect them? I have a hard time understanding it, but he insists that he does love me as a very, very good friend. But romantically it just wasn’t enough.

Either way, you guys got your way. Hope you’re happy…

P.S. I don’t mean to make that sound sarcastic. I honestly did appreciate all of your support, I’m merely updating you.

P.S.S. Anyone know any interesting atheists? 😉

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Responses

  1. I know your decision wasn’t an easy one and I imagine you did quite a bit of thinking. Hope it’s not like YOU didn’t try and that YOU didn’t love. I don’t feel “I got my way” with your decision. Ultimately, you have to do what’s best for you and your heart.

    And maybe a friendship will develop from this. However, I’d also be cautious with friends who tell you that they are smarter (or other arrogant things) than you are. A friendship, really any relationship, has to be based on respect and equal footing, otherwise the relationship is uneven, one-sided.

    I really wish that I had known earlier in my life to choose men who actually loved me who had no fear expressing it. Instead I chose many men I was attracted to and that I cared for assuming that because my feelings were so strong that theirs must have been also.

    Anyway, I wish you the absolute best! : )

    Hugs from virtual space!
    Elizabeth


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