I’ve lost quite a few friends lately and I’ve come close to losing more than I’d like as well. Most of it boils down to my smoking…I say I’m going to quit and don’t and they get mad and defriend me. Should they be there to support me? Of course, I think they should. However…that’s not the only thing I’ve been accused of.
Two of my friends called me a lying, untrustworthy friend. Wow! That hit home with me. I never thought I was like that, in fact I know I’m not. What makes them think that? I absolutely have no idea. But it really messes with my head.
If you get to know me you’ll learn that the one thing I refuse to deal with is lying. I hate liars, it’s like my biggest pet peeve. If you lie to me, it’s likely I will not be your friend. This even goes down the line of someone who exaggerates or something like that. I absolutely hate it when people stretch the truth. So for me to sit there and hear someone say that I’m a lying, untrustworthy friend…goodness, it makes me want to cry.
I’m not sure where they come up with the lying concept from me. One of the friends I lost due to being “untrustworthy” is well, a jerk..and is just mad at me for telling people her mistakes. The other? I have absolutely NO idea where they came up with it.
I am not a liar dammit. I’m not.