Recently I’ve been getting a lot more open with my boyfriend, telling him a lot of things about me. Things that I’m sure not going to say on here. Surprisingly, he’s been really supportive of everything. He was willing to open up to me really early, it took me a little bit longer. Still though, I haven’t told him all of my story….that could take days. But I feel a lot more comfortable around him. We’ve really bonded a lot the past week. I mean, it’s been ridiculous how close we’ve gotten just within the last week. I don’t think we’ve not seen each other everyday in over a week. It is as if we insist upon seeing each other. We hang out for 6 hours at least, daily. And you know what? I love it. It’s been a long time since I could feel so comfortable around someone. We have so much in common, and other things that we don’t have so much in common. Like our background, and the types of homes we grew up in? Yeah, totally (TOTALLY) different. But the cool thing about that is that we’re both extremely willing to just listen and understand where each other has came from. I know that all relationships start off like this, and I suppose we haven’t been dating long enough for me to say whether or not this is true love or not. ‘Cause it very well could be puppy love.
Shoot, right now…that’s probably all it is. But that doesn’t exclude the fact that this could actually lead to something true and real. Needless to say, everything is going great with us. We’ve really discussed a lot of things that have been on our minds. We’ve also come to a lot of agreements on things, which is totally great. I was worried that our religious backgrounds would hinder us from a lot of agreements, but it seems that we’re both willing to cooperate with each other.
Speaking on that term, his dad wants me to go to church with them sometime. I’m considering going one time, just to be nice and show that I’m open minded..though I clearly told John that I would definitely not be a Mormon, nor would I be attending church with him. But I don’t know, I don’t want to lead him on and make him believe that I might be considering it, because I’m not.
Even so, we got into a religious debate about a week ago now. Maybe the word “debate” is a bit harsh, how about “discussion”? It actually was really intriguing. He had never really listened or understood what I had to say about religious things. But this time he really did listen and thought about the words that came out of my mouth. I didn’t say anything that would rock his world or anything, actually…if my memory serves me right I think I just brought up Noah’s Ark. Which really, I can’t prove much from that. But I think I just mentioned the cruelty and silliness of it (to me). And he did respond, with a respectful response…something that made me stop and think for a second…but I think we ended the conversation on a consensus that we understood and respected each others viewpoint.
So…that is about all that has been going on in my life. I haven’t really been all that ‘moved’ to write lately. I’ve slowly secluded myself (for the most part) from the blogging world. There’s just not much to say right now. I haven’t been being all philosophical about much of anything lately…But life is good, thats all that matters.
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